Sex Toys for Threesomes by Red Hot Suz
Navigating threesomes can be a bit of a complicated endeavour. You have to find the right partner(s), set boundaries, talk safer sex details, plan logistics and, if you’re like me, decide what sex toys to bring! Sex toys can be great for introducing new sensations and experiences to group sex, and also for helping with positioning and cleanup. More bodies usually means more complicated sex (in terms of organization) so sex toys can help with creating a more complete experience for everyone!
As a unicorn and a sex toy reviewer, I’ve had the honour of introducing lots of toys to couples I’ve threesomed with. Here are some of my favourites...
NJOY PURE WAND
The NJoy Pure Wand, in my opinion, is magical. It can heavily hit G-spots and P-spots with ease so it’s perfect for a variety of different bodies. It’s also a toy that isn’t a staple in many people’s bedrooms, so introducing it to someone else makes you feel like you're blessing their body with a scepter. I brought the Pure Wand to a threesome last year and got to use it on one half of the couple. She loved it so much that it went immediately on her wishlist.
WE-VIBE TANGO
This little vibe is perfect for fitting in-between bodies, so it’s my choice vibrator to pack for a threesome. The We-Vibe Tango's small but mighty power is perfect for clit play, whether that be masturbating voyeuristically as a couple plays in front of me, or if I’m participating in the action. Plus it can stimulate perineum and scrotums too, making it useable for all bodies! I always make sure it’s charged up the night before a threesome date, so I can put it in my safer sex bag.
ORGANICA KISSABLE MASSAGE OIL
One of the best ways to break the initial awkwardness of a threesome is to start with a slow massage. It gives all involved a task to focus on, and gets all three people physically connected. This will inevitably lead to sexier acts too; who doesn’t get turned on by soft and smooth, oiled up naked bodies touching? The Organica Kissable Massage Oil is perfect for threesome, as it can be warmed up to create an even hotter experience. The oil is 100% organic, latex and barrier friendly, plus is edible, so if you can lick it off of each other.
LIBERATOR FURNITURE
Liberator Furniture makes the perfect positioning aids for sex, and their line of “sex pillows” doesn’t stop at helping just two people. Coordinating who-goes-where in a threesome can be one of the most nerve wracking parts, but Liberator's line of high density wedges makes finding orientations for multiple bodies easy. The Wedge/Ramp Combo can help support someone’s head at one end, and their hips at the other, so both their mouth and genitals are levitated for easy access. Since the foam is so thick, people are supported without falling into the business of a mattress, and each Liberator product has a microfiber cover, making them soft and moisture resistant.
HARNESS + DILDO
While I’ve never adorned a harness myself, I had one used on me while I was threesoming this summer. Harness and harness wearable dildos can add an extra element of fun to a threesome group, as it allows for handless penetration for people who don’t have penises (although some people with penises can strap-on too.)
If you’re new to pegging, Tantus makes the Bend Over Intermediate Strap-On Harness kit, which comes with two silicone dildos, two O’ rings, a bullet vibe, and a harness. If you’re a bit more experienced, check out the SpareParts Theo Harness and pair it with any dildo with a harness compatible base. Whether you’re three people with vulvas looking for someone to adorn a dildo, or one person with a vulva looking to peg a cute girl and a guy, strapping on can add lots of new sensations (mentally and physically) to your threesome.
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